Have you ever wanted to leave a situation you were in or a relationship? What were the things making you stay? It can be a hard thing to do when you have so much time and love invested into something or someone. You have so many different thoughts and emotions going on. There be a pull here and another there and you don’t know which way to turn. The thoughts be on an all time high and you have to move forward through the hurt and pain. It is not fun having to leave someone or something: it’s scary and hurtful. You never know how a change can impact you and your life. The things you were once used to are not there anymore and you have to adjust to the newness. Some people feel like they have put too much time and work into something to let it go and move on. Some people don’t think they can do better than what was. I know leaving can change and be scary but when necessary we must go.

What is it that you need to leave? What are the steps you’re going to take? What is the scary part about it to you?

When we leave something or someone, it’s usually for the best. We can’t stay in these relationships that cause us hurt and pain. I’m not saying that there won’t be some trouble in our relationships but you will know when there has to be change. Once you know that you have to leave then make the changes to do just that. If you are scared, pray if that’s apart of your life: otherwise step forward for yourself or ask family and friends for help. As you look over your life now, what is it that you need to leave?

Leaving may be scary and full of hurt but it is necessary at times!